new time on the clock..Mommy Time

My days have come down to mommy time n i enjoy every last min of it....those awsome couple of hrs i can use for a nice warm bath or play a video game while my lil lady is sleep...half the time i find myself still watching Disney Jr even long after shes deep into her nap...i tend to find myself enjoying the songs of Why? from Tinga Tinga Tales or the adventures of Badou Babars grandson..then it hits me this is ur time "Mommy" time the time for myself screw the cartoons put on some divorce court lol...No more hi, bye, im out now its hi,bye, we're out or whose gonna watch my lil lady....but i find my best Mommy time moments are spent holding my lil lady while she sleeps as i drift off next to her

Hug em or Leave em

New studies show if you dont let your baby self soothe your hindering them mentaly another study shows that a hock of crap but infact babies who are left to cry it out have an increase of saliva as if they were still crying....the i look at you need to know when to hug em up and when to leave em....dry,fed,all clean n played with n u know its a im tired cry leave em for a lil bit give them their paci fav toy let em self soothe....but if they fed,dry etc. n crying like they bout to bust a vessel hug em cause then you know they just need a lil mommy love...hug em or leave em..you be the judge

sometimes you gotta do you

THIS POST IS TOTALY BASED ON MY PERSONAL OPINION

Get a good Ped. i repeat get a good Ped..... if your Ped. is shocked and amazed your two almost three month old is trying to sit up... OMG HOUSTON WE HAVE A PROBLEM lol....know who your sending your child to.... listen to your inner voice if you feel their not right ...you are their advocate....dont always listen to what they have to say concerning YOUR CHILD...YOU KNOW YOUR CHILD if you dont know the answer ask ask ask i repeat ask your mom (GRANDMA ISNT JUST FOR SHOW...IF YOUR MOM SAYS NO ITS NO IF 
SHES GIVES YOU THE GO AHEAD THEN TRUST HER..ITS NOT HER FIRST RODEO)
Know when to up the anty...if your baby is taking a 5 ounce bottle and wants more an hour later its time to up the anty....once you get to the point where you reaching the 7 ounce mark and they still want more say hello to my cereal friend one table spoon of cereal in their regular formula should please them just fine (babies who are hitting 2 months sleeping thru the night and just milk isnt doing it....if you relyed on a ped to tell you when they could have a lil substance keep on waiting lol) My baby just made three months she has a morning bowl of oatmeal and bananas with a half bottle of water mixed with juice, lunch same thing,dinner 8 ounce formula bottle after that bed and she doesnt wake up till morning (SHE IS A SUPPORTED SITTER TRYING TO SIT UP ON HER OWN AND CAN GRAB THE SPOON AND PULL IT TO HER MOUTH... THIS PLAN IS NOT FOR A BABY WHO IS STILL IN THE LAYING THERE AND LOOKING AT YOU STAGE AND HASNT REACHED THE HAND TO MOUTH MILESTONE AND IS SATIFIED WITH THEIR MILK INTAKE)...  

Get a good ped...listen to grandma and last but not least know your child

You think you need all that....well you're wrong

Its funny how when you become pregnant you think i need 20 bottles,10 binkies, bottle warmers, sterilizers etc. .....but guess what you dont need half of that junk i swear baby stores get off on us new moms bc we want it all...they dont tell you dont waste your money you can get by the first few months with out all that junk...to be honest by the time you have your baby dont even count on doing crap that first month you gonna be to busy dragging yourself out of bed to feed and change your baby your gonna be saying sterilizer what i know of no such person lol....as long as you stay on top of your bottles all you need is some safe baby bottle cleaner n boil some water quick 1.2.3. rinse nand your done....top five things you need to take care of a baby for the first year 1. Pampers Pampers  and more Pampers 2. Burp clothes you need at least 30 {i have two for outside and Two for inside a bip for every feeding once she started eating from a bowl} 3. Milk and lots of it if your not breast feeding {abbott.com best place to order milk in bulk}...if Breast feeding milk storage bottles major+ if not have at least 5 bottles you really only need them for the first month or so once they get bigger n switch to a lil cereal in a bowl 2 bottles to alternate is perfect 4. A good carrier, stroller or both 5. First time mom safty kit equppied with groming products and first aid kit equipped to everything from first tooth gel to gripe water for hiccups to nasal aspirator {your best booger friend} the best one to buy as a back up is the one you suck with your mouth....and thats it everything else is great but if you cant afford it these top five neccessities are perfect to carry for a while  

Welcome to the Inner Circle

In the far away and distant lands deep in the heart of the inner cities of the world there is a group of common everyday women who indulge in a secret world in which they only know the true pitfalls of it...it is called Dun Dun Duuunnnn MOTHERHOOD.....Unless you are a mother you will never truly understand this secret world of sore leaky breasts, nauseua, heartburn, n swollen feet...Welcome to the Inner Circle